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img_3588This little video here is an example of my humanness.  We are light, we are energy.  The light will never leave you. You are Human, having a spiritual experience.  Through trauma, through loneliness, through times of great challenge, the light is ALWAYS pulsing through you. You have access to it no matter what.  Curled up in fetal position crying on the floor, you have access to it.  It will not leave you. It will not abandon you.  Trust in the light. It is you. It is within, and without. Do not make it a concept. Feel it.  Meditate in stillness and ask to taste it.  Know it.  Keep asking, and it will reveal itself stronger and stronger to you.

Do Not Be Ashamed of Your Pain

Do not treat me like the smiling friend you see on social media who you are ashamed to share the truth to.

I am not that friend. Counselor, healer, I am comfortable with your pain.

I am not the one who posts a meme, only to hold you to a standard that you feel you may never reach. I am a guide, healer who has had multiple lifetimes of pain and suffering.

Born in Chiron, I am a wounded healer. I chose parents who were wounded too.

Do Not Be Ashamed of Your Pain.

I Do Not Find Joy in Being Better Than, Because I Am Not.

I may have learned certain things from my own path, my teachers, and clients that have allowed me to become teacher. I may transmit grace and love, and light as spirits conduit. But I am certainly not void of emotion, nor filled with judgment.

I am the one who cries often from sensitivities and deep feelings.  I only understand you, because I somehow can relate being placed by spirit in a variety of painful situations.

I have known loss, abandonment, break ups, drug addicts, sex addicts, loss of a parent, loneliness, anxiety, fear, abuse, painful relationships and more.  I have worked through it to find out how to get to the other side. 

Do Not Be Ashamed of Your Pain.

In your pain, I see beauty and strength. Your pain stimulates the divine in me to hold even more unconditional love. Your pain reminds me and stimulates compassions.  Your pain is why I heal.

I am dedicated to healing pain.  We all deserve to be free.

I don’t expect a perfect human.  I only wish to hold you in love.

If you see a post or video where I’m encouraging you to be more or out of pain, only see it as a sign post of on option to go to when it feels authentic. Do not see it as a reprimand, and rushing to that state.

Do Not Be Ashamed of Your Pain.

I am here, Healer.  I am have longed to be in this roll and both pushed it away. But the divine does not care.  I already offered myself to the divine to use me.  Use me as needed.  My own ego agenda is in the backseat.  Those who spirit wants me to work with, will. And I receive you.

Do Not Be Ashamed of Your Pain.

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img_3588When I first started this blog, I was in my most idealist state of being.¬† Having come out of 10 years of spiritual adventures, no family of my own,¬† I was light and free to go and do whatever I pleased.¬† When I moved away from my home of many years in California to Florida, I went through 6.5 years of cleansing by fire and pain.¬† At the tale end of that period, I became a mother to a now amazing 3.5 year old.¬† The path of motherhood both as a stepmom and biological for now a total of 7 years, changed me.¬† Some of the struggles that life had me endure during that period created a death experience in which the me that I thought I was, broke.¬† Sure, I had love, but many times, I felt lost at sea away from my home of California, in a life with a whole new set of parameters. There were also a number of energies and forces in Florida that truly tried to break my spirit.¬† It almost worked.¬† Key word…almost.

What my time in Florida showed me, is how much deep suffering is happening in other parts of the world where community, clean living, and ascension consciousness is lacking.  It taught me what many of my clients come to me with, and how fighting against forces in their environment is a whole other challenge on top of our own inner battles. It surely has given me more compassion than I already thought I had. It taught me to learn about other spiritual paradigms as a lifeline to survive that I may not have journeyed into had it not been for this pain.  I entered into the world of nature based/indigineous spiritual studies from Africa to England that awakened in me parts of my lineage and ancestors ways.  These practices have allowed me to create more in my life, protect myself better, and have brought the sacredness to my day to day life on a whole new level.

I also became deeply committed to kundalini yoga and have evolved and healed on deep, deep levels.  My practice of mantra is a thread that keeps me healing each and every day. It has helped me have more resources for my clients as well in my healing practice.

And yet, after having my own child, I have given much of my extra energy to clients and my son.¬† I haven’t figured out yet how to maintain enough energy for myself. As I revisit my own wounding from growing up with a schizophrenic mother, I find myself giving twice the amount of energy to my son to make up what I did not receive.¬† I couldn’t control it if I tried for now. It’s like a deep impulse to give and give and make him the happiest being I could ever have him be.¬† I am deeply touched by being a mother while also very tired.¬† It’s not my child’s fault. It is my own for not knowing how to not over give.¬† I have been a healer now for 18 years and all I know is giving.¬† So, all I have described above is why my writing ceased for so long.¬† But now, I find deep solace in expressing and sharing with all of you.¬† This gives me energy, so I know it is a key to rebuilding my life force once again.

As a result, I have risen from the ashes…not unscathed, but wiser. And ready to share more open hearted messages, love, and insights, with all of you.¬† Stay perked, for more posts to come. Also, I am very active on my instagram: blissfullifecounseling. Join me there. And, youtube: Blissfullifehealing for frequent Energy Updates about the state of things, and how we can utilize planetary forces to continue our own process of ascension and evolution.¬† I love you all and have missed you!!! I’m back!!!!

We want things in life…well at least most of us do. And the thing is, it is hard not to be attached to those wants, and desires. In fact, we may be so attached to power, control, or desire, that we can end up manipulating.

In my temple system lineage, the Dolphin Star Higher Council, we were asked to commit to being impeccable as a person. This doesn’t mean perfect, but it does mean abiding by certain values because they not only keep us evolving, but they also help us hold a certain frequency for the planet. So, today I wanted to bring up the subtle ways we can get caught going into lower vibration. ¬†Manipulation is the kind of thing that might ¬†not always be dark magic, because it doesn’t necessarily wish evil upon a person; but it is not light either. ¬†It’s in between‚Ķgrey. ¬†It is no different than a sorcerer using a spell to make someone do something beyond their free will. ¬†If it is done using words or lies‚Ķthen be aware you are working out of the light.

When working with others, I find this to be quite prevalent in the group consciousness on this planet…so I thought it would be a good one to address for us all to check within and ask, how much do I participate in this? Check below to see if you have ever done these behaviors.

1. Buttering Someone Up.¬†This happens when you know there is something you want from someone, and so you offer something you think they want, but it is not from a pure place. ¬†In fact, you don’t care about the success or bringing kindness to the person at all. Your intention is solely to get what you need from them and thus the giving is self-serving.¬† This is not to say we can’t have win-win’s in life. We can, but when you know in your heart you deliberately are thinking, “How can I make this person do what I want?”, then you have left the realm of win-win, and gone into manipulation.

2. Obligation. This one is similar to the one above, except if you have done something for someone, and you feel they owe you now.¬† In fact, perhaps you may even create a situation where you do something just so you can get what you want through creating a frequency of guilt in the interaction.¬† Oh boy, when you enter this realm, you are going down a path of unnecessary turmoil for you attract people who will eventually fight back when they feel you have laid a guilt trip on them too much.¬† Suddenly you are in a psychic fight where people don’t want to feel caught under your thumb.

3. Facade. This is when a person creates the appearance that they are accepting of you or something you like or do, but really they are going to try to control your behavior anyway.  Perhaps a father wants his son to not play a sport.  He may tell the son you can play it, but then when its time to play it, he is only allowed to do it in the backyard.  Thus, rather than telling the true feelings and helping his son understand his concerns about the sport (ie. football and brain injury), he has made it appear like his child is free, while truly still restricting and controlling him.  Eventually, people catch on to this one, and it will create animosity in relationships.

4. Create a Story.¬† Last, but not least, this is another way of saying: lying. White lie, or big lie, it is out of integrity because it is a way to manipulate, and even worse, bend someone’s will against their permission.¬† If you lie to get what you want, it might be to convince someone of something you want to do that they might otherwise say no to.¬† However, creating a story makes it a lot easier.¬† You don’t have to deal with their “no”, and you can also make them feel like they have to say yes.¬† For example, you may create a dire situation to make sure people think it is an exceptional situation, an extenuating circumstance, thereby causing them to say “yes” this one time.

White lies may not seem like a big deal, but they do 2 things.  They create a pattern of doing that to get out of uncomfortable situations which stops us from learning to speak our truth, and to work things out. They also as a result build a web around the energy field that eventually turns into something that looks like a spider web of negative energy because they have a cumulative effect.

See how intricate this dynamic can get?  The fact of the matter is, it is a way of devolving (did I coin a word?). You can learn to be with the flow of the Universe, co-create, and detach from desire which will ultimately make you free. Or you can live your life following every whim or impulse, a slave. When we begin to speak the truth of what we need, and sometimes get what we want, and sometimes not, we learn that this Universe was meant to be a cocreation of allowing and harmony.  We learn to share and this, my people, makes a better world.

With love,

Ariah

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Life is a series of cycles, and as new cycles come in, it is helpful to have clear intent on the meaning, and purpose of that cycle.¬† Working with so many people now for 15 years, one thing I have discovered is the main source of most people’s depressions is feeling a lack of purpose.¬† Find purpose through the Universal cycles.¬† When we make it less personal, less about us, we actually find what our unique contribution is meant to be.¬† Funny how that works.

So what is this year for? Taking the things that maybe you thought were seed ideas, or maybe you have cultivated but have not fully blossomed, and then actually taking steps to do something about them.  I told one client who desired to start a business that seemed pretty ambitious, that the only thing between her and the people already doing that business successfully, was that they went and did all the steps to make it happen. Her idea is to create a natural makeup line. I told her, well go see the chemist to create it. She had already learned about the herbal properties.  Sometimes our dreams feel so huge or so far away, but all they are is a series of steps.  Put one foot in front of the other and do it!

My husband always says to me, “no grass grows under YOUR feet”, because I have lived my life taking action, so much to the point where I often feel my dreams can be burdens! This is because it means lots of actions need to be taken‚Ķand I won’t rest until I have done them ALL.¬† And then of course, another dream appears, and now the steps are endless.¬† For me, it has been a process of surrendering to the flow and taking action in a beautiful dance that allows the enjoyment of the process.

This year, it is our time for many who have been brewing up little ideas or large ones, in the back of your mind, or that have actually started a process that needs to go to the next level.¬† And you know what? This is ALL OF US. We are born to dream. We are born creators being ONE with creator.¬† Creators can be business people, and they can be musicians.¬† It doesn’t matter how it shows up.¬† Create.

Do not get side stepped by the victim mentality of, “why doesn’t it work out for me, it works out for him”. Or,¬† “they were lucky, I have to do this everyday to make a living”.¬† Oh dear ones, this is such a trap. A trap I say! Just because you dream and put effort out doesn’t mean each thing will go to where you thought it should go. However, chances are, if you keep trying something will stick.¬† Your higher self has laid out a perfect divine plan for you. You don’t always have the knowledge of what it is because spirit has allowed us to experience mystery as human beings.¬† In the mystery, we learn to become humble, and surrender; release the egoic attachment‚Ķand in that is God/Goddess realization.¬† So create, take action, and let go for 2015. And this will surely be a great year.

With love,

Ariah

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Yes, the childhood song‚Ķit’s true. Every last piece of this reality is ruled by each individuals perception.¬† What we see here as solid, is only solid because that is the information our brain is picking up.¬† What is happening around us, is based on our view of what it means built around our perceptions, our mental constructs, and our belief systems aka THOUGHTFORMS.¬† Even in the state of co-creation, this reality only appears to be different than our dream state.¬† Certain “receptors” are unaware while we sleep (unless you have practiced for them not to be), while other parts of our consciousness remain awake.¬† And when we “wake” up, the same thing is happening.¬† As we train our minds to go into the Theta state in “waking” reality, we actually can experience the same reality we do when we go to sleep at night.¬† The more we strengthen this ability to switch back and forth, the more we begin to see that reality merges together with dream time, and that all is actually extremely flexible.

Our thoughts are flexible, and even what we appear to be solid is flexible.  Some yogis have developed Siddhas, or skills that allow them to pierce what normally is perceived as reality.  This includes, being able to place a handprint, into something that appears solid.  A miracle? Or is it simply that they have transcended normal perception?  The parts of our brain that are not being used have access to see the flexibility of reality that exists.  In other studies done, it is shown that people experiencing life in this way actually have calm parietal lobes in the brain. The calming of the parietal lobes on the sides of the head, allow for a shift in experiencing life.  And just so you know, this is not for just the special.  This is called evolution.  This is our birthright to see the truth of reality.

Why is this important? Well, for one, knowing this, whether we are or not fully experiencing this fully yet, takes humans out of victim mode, into creators.¬† You create your own reality is no longer a concept, but a way of life.¬† We have the power to manifest in this flexible reality. In fact, a recent article I read discussed a scientist found that human intention can actually be contained and studied to have an effect on reality, things, people. We are not slaves to our incomes, or to our experience.¬† We can make changes even if we don’t know how they will come to pass.¬† All that is important is to believe in the above,and continue to focus on the intention.

Many of us have heard of Abraham Hicks and about the law of attraction.¬† Well that is just one benefit of understanding what I speak of here. It is also to move into the true nature of the mind.¬† The true nature of the mind is truly detached from judgment or how things should be.¬† It is free. It is consciousness viewing life, emotions, experiences.¬† And each of us has a consciousness that has it’s own unique way of participating in life.¬† Your consciousness may simply see all as light‚Ķmaybe as play‚Ķmaybe as divine life force aka power. ¬† The consciousness is simply experiencing it and through the understanding that life is but a dream, we move closer to our brain and life becoming free of suffering. We do not need to suffer.

Many of you reading this now have heard this, but it sounds like an outlandish concept when you fee like you have to do something to make this happen, to be free of attachment, to become your Buddha/Christ self. However, I say, start with life is a dream. And then what may come next is that you take problems, pain, and such, less seriously. It doesn’t mean you live irresponsibly, it means you are less likely to make them such big deals that they immobilize you. And when those problems aren’t a big deal, they become like a humorous movie as the ego continues to respond like a drama queen. The Taoist way is to let humor take over.¬† It is not so serious. It is a dreamlike reality that changes on the drop of a hat.¬† Notice how one day can make such a difference?

Once there is a shift towards the above, the expansion, knowing, and attainment of the true nature of the mind will come easily and with grace, because it is who you really are.  We were meant to enjoy this life, to be abundant, to create with power.  We were meant to transcend human suffering.  It may not be everyones path to do so in this lifetime, and that is ok. Do not force this upon people making a choice to be asleep.  We will all make it.  This life is yet one drop in the vastness of all that we are. Make your own personal choice, which makes it easier for others to have a shift, just by you holding divine truth in your consciousness. And enjoy the dream.

With light,

Ariah Velasquez

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