Ariah Velasquez – Deepening into Love – 12 February 2014

I didn’t know I was going to do an article on love so close to Valentine’s Day, and I must say it actually isn’t on purpose.  But I believe I tune into the group consciousness when writing these articles, and what is on the group “mind”.  So, of course, different insights have come through this week about love…specifically love in relationship. And oh, I feel the fire this article may bring up in people.  If that happens, then please see this as a means for something to clear.  Of course, these are my thoughts and feelings and I own them as that. Whatever resonates, take it with you, and what doesn’t, discard.

When we begin to open our heart deeper and deeper to love someone, I believe there are different phases.  There is phase one, where we must get past obvious fears of the human condition: fear of abandonment, trust issues, and vulnerability.  When we stay present with what comes up with our loved ones, and continue to examine, “where is what is happening about me and my wounds?”, we make it through phase one with flying colors!

Phase 2 is peace. It is where all is well and many things have been sorted out.  It is balance and the calm after the storm.  It is a period where you reap the benefits of healed wounds through the love of your beloved and the self.

Just when you think you have it figured out, phase 3 comes along.  Phase 3 are the hidden places where fear resides.  It is the places you didn’t know existed and it may cause people to mistake this for “something not being right”.  I see many clients come to me in this phase where they think the person they are with, is missing certain aspects they like in a partner, or they decide when they finally have what they want, now they want their freedom, and the list goes on and on. It is the phase of dissatisfaction.  If you make it through this phase, it is hopefully because you see that everything you desire in someone else, is what you are desiring within yourself to achieve. Either that or you are tolerating and not enjoying your experience.

Many partners (especially female) will desire to be taken care of more financially.  They will feel frustrated about struggling in this way and make it about their partner.  When you ask yourself the question, “do you feel financially free personally?” and the answer is no, then it means it is time for you to dig deep and cultivate your gifts to bring abundance into your life.

Phase 3 is also about seeing the deep core feeling that many of us on this planet have about not being lovable enough to be worthy of having someone stay for a lifetime. We make it about the other person, so that we do not have to look deep within our own fears of not being enough.  We make problems up about the other people so we do not have to face the deep feeling of core unworthiness of Source/ God’s love. This fear is covert and not obvious. It will show up in the form of feeling “trapped” or feeling like you are drawn to something else. Many people end up cheating in this phase or asking for my favorite in the new age community: the open relationship.  Oooh, I know I am stirring the pot mentioning this one.

The open relationship works for some, but in my counseling of 100’s of people and over 1000 sessions, those in open relationship usually cease to survive them.  There are the rare few that utilize them to truly understand unconditional love and letting go of ownership paradigms, but most truly go into them from deep fear of true intimacy and even a history of sexual abuse.  I can honestly say that 99% of people I have worked with that choose the open relationship have had sexual abuse.  Why is this?

It is because being sexualized at a young age brings about a feeling of confusion of lovability equaling those that give them sexual affection.  This means there is a constant feeling of wanting to be engaged in constant stimulation from people to feel loved.  When true intimacy hits, meaning the real crap comes up, that is when suddenly they long for someone else.  Intimacy in their lives started out without boundaries, without safety, even if it was enjoyable for them. This is very confusing when developing sexuality.

So I share this all because I see how common failed love affairs are, I see how easy it is to give up, and I see how many people in the name of 5D reality shun away from committed, lifelong partnership.  I call in for all who struggle with these things a healing today even if it is not for lifelong partnership, and simply to feel deep love and connection.    I summon the beings of light that is YOU  and I, and the beings that watch over this planet to impulse the violet flame through any nook and cranny that any of us as a group consciousness holds within our vibration related to this, and then I ask it to spread around Earth now.  I call this in so in our own perfect way, we may have a clearing to experience true intimacy with others, whether it be sexual in nature or not.  I summon this so we may transcend the pain of our planets past miscreations and become victorious in the name of love.  I summon this so that we may speak to people we meet with authenticity and acceptance even if just meeting for a short conversation; I command this to be so, so we may not hide under the shroud of fear of not being worthy of love and acceptance.  We are ONE.

And so it is.

Ariah Velasquez

Ariah is a counselor, Pleiadian healer, and New-thought minister. http://www.blissfullifecounseling.info/ariah-s-healing-blog, http://www.ariahvelasquez.wordpress.com

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Ariah Velasquez – Love Your Pain – December 5th, 2013

Loving Your Pain
No, this is not some S and M post or anything; this is about YOU receiving energy NOW for your consciousness to be able to be in pain (when and if you are), while simultaneously being the angel in your life that just watches the pain and loves the YOU that is experiencing it. Let me explain.

You are both the human experiencing the pain, and the consciousness that is watching it all holding you in its most compassionate arms. You merely need to focus on the part that is holding it and watch, and love. Don’t TRY to do this. Just allow and intend. See what happens.

Realize now, that the majority of your pain, as a divine being on the path, is not even your own. That you are healing and experiencing the collective consciousness. You, as a being, who is a lightworker, wayshower, tends to be tapped into that. You have not been left behind.  While you see some in bliss, know all things go in cycles.  You are right where you need to be.  We all come here to help in different ways.  This may be your way.  This pain is not personal, though it seems that way. What quality of pain have you been asked to hold and love? Is it loneliness? Is it frustration? Release yourself from taking it so seriously. Become the viewer of it and now as you read this, let the energy of this letter help your heart become the vaster being that says,”Ah, yes, that is how you feel. I know it is hard. Yes my dear. I’m here for you”. Let it melt in the love that you are.

With light, Ariah

We are one. Ariah is a counselor, Pleiadian healer, and New-thought minister. http://www.blissfullifecounseling.info/ariah-s-healing-blog

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Ariah Velasquez- A Mentoring Program for Healers

Mentoring Program for Healers

Many times I have been asked to teach what I do for others, and only a few have been able to take some of my classes since it was something I was not called to do very often. Lately, spirit has been inspiring me to start a Mentoring Program, which is not a weekend of learning how to do Pleiadian Lightwork, but more of my own personal system that has melded together many different traditions. The purpose is also to cultivate your own unique formula for healing and working with people. It may not be in a one on one capacity. It may be simply by holding a healing presence. Learning to bring your gifts to the forefront, can be a tricky thing, as well as a challenge to navigate in the real world. Whether you want to get paid to be a healer, or just be a force on this planet that emanates love, these are all aspects of utilizing your higher dimensional capacities to make change here on planet Earth. I am still developing the details of this program, including the cost, but it will entail coming to Florida 3 times in a year, and the Level one will last a year. You will have monthly check in and mentoring sessions, possibly twice a month. You meet with the group 3 times a year. I currently have 3 young women who are indigos wishing to begin. A huge aspect of my work will be initiating, from my Mystical Christ oriented lineage as well as my Taoist lineage. When I say Christ, it merely represents being an anointed one, one who holds total love at all times. Over the years, I have had to move through my own process for this and many of the missing pieces are falling into place now, which I believe is why I have been asked recently all at once by people to do this. If you are interested, just let me know.

With Light, Ariah

Increasing the Silence – March 15, 2013

Increasing the silence within will allow you to see the deep things you have been longing for, needing, or struggling with.  This silence can come in many ways, but the silence is about quieting the areas in the mind and psyche that are activated towards pain.  The silence can come from transmission from a teacher, an “A-HA” moment, meditation, or by mistake in the wee small hours of the morning, usually the holy hour around 3am.  If you wake at around this time, you are probably being asked by your higher self to increase the silence somewhere that is activated inside of you.

An exercise to increase inner silence:

Try getting up a half hour earlier than normal one day this week.

Sit and listen to yourself.

Review what happened the day before and reflect on what has been hurting you.

Next ask your higher self to fill your tube of light and activate your silver cord.

Ask your higher self to reveal to you, what it is you have deeply been needing, longing for.

Sit and listen.

When you receive your answer, allow yourself to experience any grief about this. Let it well up inside and come out fully. This might be tears.

Next, call in a Heart Activation Chamber of Light from the Pleiadian Emissaries of Light. Ask that they bring it around you to soothe and open the heart to receive more of what you are needing. Sit and receive this. When you feel it is complete,

refresh your grounding cord (see a cord of light going from your 1st or 2nd chakra into the Earth Star Crystal in the center of the Earth).

Affirm: I increase the silence in all areas of wounding. And so it is, so be it.

Go on with your day knowing you are increasing the silence by making space for yourself and for the heart to open.

Blessings,

Ariah Velasquez

We are one. Ariah is a counselor, Pleiadian healer, and New-thought minister. http://www.blissfullifecounseling.info/ariah-s-healing-blog

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What to do When People Play Emotional Games- February 21, 2013

I get a lot of people coming to me with questions about the title of this article. Why do so many people on planet Earth seem to find relief through playing games to hurt, harm, get what they want, share a message without speaking it directly, or show someone they are hurt by hurting back? I see this as a wounded condition of some that are still waking up to the whole concept that we create our own reality. I also see this behavior coming from a place of people not spending daily time connecting to their underlying impulses, and subconscious issues. When we don’t spend time looking deep within on a daily level understanding what drives us, then we will tend to take actions that we feel are justified. We may say to ourselves, well if this person said that to me, then I am going to do this to them. This is the revengeful approach. Then their is the unconscious approach: well, I want to feel loved, so I will distance myself when I am afraid someone will not love me. These are just examples of the way humans play games with each other. Unfortunately, when it comes to these type of games, no one ever wins. And one of the biggest issues is that many times these actions are done towards others due to their own assumptions that something is happening, without ever discussing it with them or having proof. Sure, a person can have an intuition, but a lot of the time, interpersonal dynamics are misconstrued because of a person’s own wounding.

So, how do we deal with people that are doing these types of behaviors? We could choose to get angry, but that wouldn’t really solve anything, would it? In the past, I might have told myself or clients to talk it out with the person. However, what I have learned over the years is that if the other people are not willing to live from a non-blaming place, or if they are really not honest enough with self to explore their actions or role, a conversation proves fruitless. It just ends in pain. Psychologist Carl Jung said in so many words that communication is overrated. It made me chuckle when I first heard this because there is some truth to this. Communication really only works when people are really committed to trying to work things out. In compassionate communication techniques, there is a theory that as long as the other person is in a state of empathy, then the other one in conflict will come around. This may work 50% of the time…so then what?

Surrender and shift focus. Let them do what they do. Let them “win”, because it is only themselves they harm. Basically, ignore it. Do not put your attention on what they do. Do not even respond. If they come and meet you halfway with a loving action, that is when you respond. This is different than a game because you are choosing to focus on only positive energy. The intent is not to harm, and that is the difference. Then, if the person comes back at you with the old, less healthy energy, withdraw your energy again. You see, when you pay attention to things you don’t want, you merely attract it more. So it is taking the conscious stand to focus on loving actions and shift focus on all else. If they continue to use these manipulative behaviors in a way that is disturbing the homeostasis of your life, then it may be time if possible to shut the door. A Yogi tea bag said once on it, the purpose of life is to be joyful. I agree. Do not waste time and energy by focusing on people that take actions from unconscious places. And you know what else? Don’t worry about what they think of you. One of my favorite all time quotes is: it’s none of your business what other people think of you. True, so true.

Many people have lost their own family members due to what I speak of here, specifically in the lightworker community. This is because as you wake up to the truth of reality, you begin to see that all reflections are for information for you to heal. This means, that even the person doing the odd behaviors is there to teach you something and so you begin to be willing to sit vulnerably with others to resolve things. However, with these new skills, we also learn as lightworkers we may be disappointed when others haven’t quite reached that realization yet. In fact, when you sit with them vulnerably sharing with an open heart, they may even use that as a time to actually throw energetic darts. Yes, if this is in your reality, this may be trying to teach you something: to choose loving reflections. Sometimes the lesson alone is for you to detach from people and send them on there way, loving them as a soul from afar. You do not need to put up with abuse and games to be a lightworker. You merely need to live authentically. This can mean being aware when someone uses covert opportunities to harm. Choose those who vibrate from loving intention, truly. This may mean you find those to deeply connect with that are far and few between. That is why I believe many lightworkers keep to themselves and at times experience the illusion of loneliness. I believe once you are a person that is truly able to see beyond the actions of others, to see what is underneath, that knowing this information can sometimes bring up sadness as well. Yet, the less you focus on these actions, the more you will be propelled back to those that are of your true soul group of evolved beings. This statement is not a put-down for those that choose to play games. It is simply a matter of asking what kind of energies and feelings do you feel comfortable around. Trust your instincts. When something feels really bad, even if you may have a role in a dynamic, it probably is. It probably is a discordant energy that you are ready to release. This means releasing your part about it, and yes, sometimes releasing the person. This releasing of the person may be temporary. They may come around again and you will resonate with them in the future, but for now, accept what is. Accept what is and bless them on their way.

An exercise to release discordant energy:

Place the right hand over the left hand on the heart and say in your head or out loud:

My heart, I love you.

My mind, I love you.

I forgive myself for anything I have done or said that needs to be forgiven.

And I release my attachment to the unkind words or actions others have done or said to me.

I recognize my own beauty.

I believe in myself and in my dreams.

I am bountiful, I am beautiful, and I am blissful.

I AM.

I am at peace.

I am whole.

I am loved.

I rest in the light of this truth.

With much love,

Ariah Velasquez

We are one. Ariah is a counselor, Pleiadian healer, and New-thought minister. http://www.blissfullifecounseling.info/ariah-s-healing-blog

http://www.ariahvelasquez.wordpress.com

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Ariah Velasquez – Shine Bright Like a Diamond – February 12, 2013

As we access more and more who we really are through the recurring intent of taking in light, we shine quite brightly I must say! The glow we see coming out of ourselves and those awakening is not just from healthy foods. It is also from the taking in light as food with conscious intent.

The diamond light frequency is powerful for your evolution, your light body, and healing. For many years, I have used this frequency to realign, and I have offered it to clients as an option to stay in balance. The diamond light is a vehicle to connect you to your most highest self. When visualizing the diamond light above you and then entering your body, you are essentially experiencing this merge as a 5th dimensional being. Visualizing = happening when their is enough of a powerful charge attached to the vision.

Your soul matrix, (the place where the soul anchors), is also shaped like a diamond, so when you align with diamond energy, it helps your blueprint align with the true nature of your soul’s highest intent. You also create a grid of energy that holds the frequency of diamond light, which is quite pure in it’s actual essence. You do not need physical diamonds to experience the diamond, you only need your thought and intent to.

The result of allowing this diamond light in is not only a blissful feeling inside, but it has a clearing effect, and tunes you up, like an instrument. I first learned this technique from one of my first teachers, Amorah Quan Yin, many years ago, and I have used it almost every day since. Here is a way to access the diamond light activation below:

Diamond Light Meditation:

Ground yourself by visualizing a deep violet cord of light coming out of your lower chakra (either 1st or 2nd). See this cord of light going deep into the Earth Star Crystal in the center of the Earth.

Next, call forth the Overlighting Deva of Diamond light to join you.

See the diamond octahedron above your crown. Now welcome the diamond like to come into your crown.

See it moving down the spine until it hits the tailbone. Now send a little down the legs, and let the diamond light curl up the center of the body.

When it reaches the shoulders, see a little bit spill down the arms and then let it complete it’s cycle up the center of the neck and face.

Let it begin again and now imagine you have a switch next to this floating diamond that says manual or automatic. Switch it to automatic and intend that this diamond energy run on automatic for as long as your body needs it.

This will give you an energy boost, and as long as you are balanced in your diet as well, and keeping your thoughts towards joy, you will emanate the glow of your true self daily when including this practice. I share this today because I think it is important not to just deliver information, but also practical tools on how to live life as your higher self. These tools I share are precious to me.

Hope this helps! With much love,

Ariah Velasquez

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Ariah Velasquez – How to Truly Create Abundance – January 26th, 2013

Abundance is usually what people refer to as money, however, abundance means a great deal more than that.  You could say, abundance is an overflowing cup of energy. Whether you want that energy to be uplifting or not is your choice. However, many find money to be the pesky part about abundance that they cannot conquer, so I will focus a bit on this aspect specifically today as well as the big picture of abundance.

When we focus on emotions like anger, resentment, and depression, we tend to drain abundance in all aspects of our lives.  Also, when we tend to focus on work that drains our energy, we tend to fall ill over time, thus draining the abundant physical energy we have.

So then, one key here is focus.  Yes, many of us have heard, focus on what you do want, and then you will create it.  Except, it doesn’t quite always work just from this alone.  Finding out what you like to do, getting clear, and then taking actions toward that desire is paramount. Yet, too many people worry if they take action, and release themselves from doing what they don’t want, that they will then go without and not be able to take care of themselves.  It indeed takes courage to do what you want, and you may have some time periods where you  struggle a bit.